Single Black Females & The Marriage "Problem"?

You sound very confused. If you are a kind, loving, independent woman, you will meet the right guy in time. Whether he is black or white. Your overthinking this way too much. Some black women come on too strong and that might hinder you, try to soften the personality a little bit. Just saying honey, not accusing. I have a friend who gets loud and pushy around men and it turns them off all the time, but, she never changes, so she IS still single.